I am a woman with autism with a son with autism. Feel free to email me with questions or for suggestions. Autism is a part of who I am and who my son is. He had little language of his own until he was 7, and wasn't totally potty trained until after age 8. I pray for you and your son to grow and learn to cope with the person he is, and to help you grieve for the child you may never have. Just as life is a process, you can get through and deal with this, with God's help, that is. Always remember, "Through Christ, all things are possible." We always reach for the stars for our kids, no matter what their abilities may be. I pray that God grant you patience and peace in the many years ahead. Love and Best Wishes, Rachel